How to Strenghten your Relationship

1) Find the source of the problem in your relationship.
2) Determine what all ya'll have to talk about.
3) Don't tell nobody else about what is going on between ya'll (unless you can really trust them).
4) Make sure both of ya'll can sit and talk about it with no distraction.
5) Break up if needed to.
6) Change your style.
7) Try new things if necessary.
8) If you have a nasty altitude try and switch it up a bit.
9) Have more communication.
10) Spend more quality time together.

Something Bad That Turned Good!!

It all started January 16, 2009 I went to my friend house and we sat and talked about our boyfriends and everything in between. Then she told me about what what my used to be best friend told her about me that she was discussing with everybody else. I thought when you tell somebody something you can confine in them to keep it to themselves. What I heard was that she was have conversations with other people about how STUPID I was with my relationship with Brandon. When we came back to school the next week I asked a certain person about the situation and it all came down to her and her best friend talking about me. All I had to say to them was keep me an him out your mouth, but to me we was the top story for everybody because they can't maintain their own relationships. After a day me and him talked it out and came up with our own decision. Now I know not to trust everybody, but through it all it showed me who my real friends are and made me and Brandon relationship stronger. It came out good to me because in the end if I needed somebody they wouldn't be there for me like I would for them. This was the best way for me to to learn how to keep things to myself and figure things out on my own rather than talk to everybody.

Winter Break experience and New Years Reslution

During winter break was kind of the same as a weekend. When we first got out of school I just went out shopping with my mama. I went out with my friends and got a mark on my body for life. I spent the next day with My boyfriend Brandon. Then I just sat in the house for a couple of days. Most of the break I was out with friends and family. My New years resolution is to make a change of myself. I need to change my altitude and the way I deal with things. Most of all I want to change how shy I am and just take a chance . This winter break I did something I thought I wasn't. That's one step to my new years resolution. By me changing my ways I would be able to get closer to people. If I stick to this I would be a better person to the people that i care about the most and to some that I don't.